So I must vent... I can't call my girlfriends about this because frankly I don't want them to know! My relationship with my husband had gotten to the point where sex is for the man! It's always about the man! I mean sex is always good of course, it always feels good but sometimes a girl just needs some lovin that is just for her needs! So often it's all about the man getting off in the end! I cannot blame this all on him, I have let it become that way. I'm not the most vocal about what I want and i don't always have the highest sex drive. Just a little frustrated. Tonight we were messing around when I got home from a movie with some friends!   I was all into it and wanting some foreplay, I told him he didn't have to stop what he was doing trying to hint that I needed a little more and then the tables turn and it's no more about me, it's about him, the end result of getting off! How do I make him realize what I want when I have not been good at showing him in the past?!?