Really confused.

My boyfriend and I broke up the end of January. This guy came along that I used to talk to a lot before my bf cut off our contact. Anyways. I started hanging out with that guy and he kissed me. We held hands, cuddled, made out. He asked me out on valentines day and i said I would think about it and maybe. ( I didn't want to get in a relationship if I still had feelings for my ex and it was an emotionally and mentally abusive relationship to begin with) after about a week, he stopped talking to me and when I asked why he said it was because other guys like me so he backed off. I tried explaining how I want him and how they shouldn't matter but he always just never answered. I finally got him
​To talk to me after about a week of that crap and he says he wants to be friends for right now cause he's not ready for a relationship and he needs to figure out what to do in life. (He's turning 20) I'm just confused and don't know what to do.