Have you or your SO ever told each other you wish you never met them or never married then while in an argument and or fight?

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There are some lines you shouldn't cross and that is one of them.

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I honestly and truely do not believe that just because you say it out of anger you you mean it. Thing are said. Just as when you were in a stage of rebellion and told you mom and/or dad you hated them. Did you mean it whilst angry?  Yes. Did you mean it truely deep down? NO! Anger is a serious emotion just as sadness is. Things are said and feelings are crushed. But that doesn't mean you mean it. My husband and I have been married less than a year. I love him with my whole being. Guess what. We fight. And a lot of the time its over stupid annoying newly wed stuff. We didn't live together before marriage and it is still difficult to see eye to eye on things. Yes I have told my husband I wish I never met him. Yes he has told me he wished he hadn't married me. Did I mean it? Did he? At the moment. Out of anger and frustration.  Out of hormones.  (On my part I was on three pills of BC a day to stop my unexplained vaginal bleeding) which is no excuse. Yes. It was meant at that moment yet. Does it hurt the person it is being spewed at? Duh! But things are said. Should they have been said? No. But things happen. No I don't think your marriage is over if you say that out of anger. No I don't think you mean it. Unless you really do. I never meant it in an everyday situation. Out of anger yes but As soon as I said it a wave of sorrow and regret washed over me. No he didn't mean it In an everyday situation. Out of anger yes he did and he said sorry afterwards. 
The point is things are said. Situation happen and anger is a dirty thing. No your marriage isn't over and it doesn't mean you don't love your husband. Things are said. So please. The comments that suggest my marriage is over as well as overs who have had similar situations can stop. It doesn't make you any better than the rest of us because you call us horrible and say we need to "search our souls"  we aren't bad people and we don't hate our husbands. We are loud and we argure. So what.

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No if you can say that to someone then you truly don't love them. I said it to my ex husband all the time but that was because  I truly hated him.

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That's like...the worst thing to ever say!!! 
I did think it a few times when we were dating but like for reals....that's not something that should be spat out in the heat of rage. That kid of stuff would stick and it would be in my head everyone we fought. It's one of those things u attach to being true when in doubt. But maybe I'm just a big baby. Lol.

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No,because of you truly love someone you would never even think anything like that much less say it. If your thinking/saying it..maybe its time for you to go your separate ways. Because you always say the truth when you really mad.

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Listen shit happens! You're angry and in the moment and you say stuff you don't mean! I haven't said that but I've said my fair share of cruel things in the moment .....

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Heck no. My husband and I have been around couples who argue and have said stuff like that to eachother, even to the extent where they "jokingly" take/ throw their rings off and call eachother names. It's not funny, it's not something to joke around about. I don't understand people who take their marriage so lightly like that.

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I told my husband that I regret marrying him, and I've ment it, we've been separated now for 9 months. Sometimes it's not ment to be and divorce is going to be horribly messy.

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One time my hubby told me he wished we had never gotten married that it was a mistake

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I've told my DH I wish I never met him once and felt horrible.  He has told me he wishes he hadn't married me twice. But I also push his buttons and make him really mad. So Its a two way thing.

Have you or your SO ever told each other you wish you never met them or never married then while in an argument and or fight?

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