I'm currently 4w3d pregnant after a miscarriage a few years ago. We've been trying ever since, so I'm really excited, but so scared. The roller coaster of emotions between the excitement and fear is driving me crazy. Here's my question....do you ladies, in your opinions, think it's better to let go of the fear and enjoy the excitement and risk being crushed by an unexpected miscarriage or do you think it's better to keep your guard up and keep thinking about the possibility of loss (which depresses me) so that it won't be such a hard blow if it happens? I know the ideal would be a balance between the two, but I'm having trouble doing that. Thanks in advance.