I don't know if I am wording this properly so advice would be great and maybe input on the issue would be appreciated.... I have a very strong dislike for my younger brother. He is a spitting image of my father (I do not have a relationship with my father never really did. My parents were divorced when I was in third grade.) Everything my brother does reminds me of my father. He has a his way or no way attitude. And I see why my parents got a divorce. I know he didn't wake up one day and say "oh I want to be a jerk the rest of my life..." but I don't have that brother sister bond because all I see is my father. And it isn't that I don't love him, I have been the first one to stand up for him plenty of times. As soon as my fathers attitude shows up, thats when the dislike becomes clear.

Again this was more of a rambling rant.... but I figure there must be someone out there that feels the same or can give some kind of input.......