Any single moms out there? In need of some emotional support 😔😢

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I'm completely destroyed beyond destroyed I'm In so much pain. I have forced myself to fight back the tears this morning since I cried my little heart out last night. I broke up with the father of my child yesterday I can't blame everything on these pregnancy emotions but basically I feel worse than before I know pain is temporary but I've never felt this pain before ... Not even with my last marriage that I invested my whole youth in. But I Iove this guy with all of my heart everything in me... And having a child by him is not helping me!!! I know he cares for me but unfortunately not as much as I do for him... He is a good man and hAs a good heart. But I feel like he is not trying to make this work and I'm just tired. Anyone a single mom? Never thought I would hAve to go through this alone... And I know I'm not the first or last mom that will go through this alone but man am I hurting baddddd

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I am no longer a single mother but I was a single mom for 5 years. For a long while it was just my daughter & I. Her father left me for another woman when I was pregnant with her. I was devastated & depressed most of my pregnancy because he was basically my first everything. My family & friends helped me a lot throughout my pregnancy but what helped me the most was God! Going to church & having that spiritual healing really helped. Even after having my daughter I struggled a lot & strayed from God but always ended up right back with Him. I am currently married to my husband who was first my best friend & I am now pregnant with my second child but his first. Do give up hope & find encouragement in reading scriptures or going to church. I know how you feel. I always hoped I would get back with my daughters father and we would be a family but now I know why it didn't happen, he wasn't the man I thought he was & God had better plans for me. Trust that God has plans for your life. I'm not saying things will never work out with your baby's father but maybe he needs to be scared straight. In the meantime try to keep yourself busy. God bless!

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I've been going through this alone from the start. Now 16+2 and couldn't be happier of the decision. Although I have to admit my family has been the best support system and very helpful.

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I am not a single mom, but I think you are a strong Woman that is going to be a great mother, if you don't think he cares about you as much as he should than you have done the right thing for persevering into motherhood on your own, because you will find love and that person will love you and your child unconditionally, and that is what you deserve. Keep your head up. Lots of love to you and your baby. :)

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I was raised by a single mum and I owe her every piece of determination and respect in my body! Now I'm a grown woman in my 30s and one of my closest friends is a single mum too. She is doing an incredible job and her and her daughter have such a close bond. We have a couple of mum friends who are married but in bad relationships where they are unhappy and use so much energy just trying to make it work and hold it together. She always thanks her lucky stars that she's not got that pressure to worry about and says how they have it so much harder. She always says, I've just got to take care of me and my little one. I've not got to cook or clean or cook or look after a husband. This is not to say it isn't bloody hard work, of course it is, it's just to say, if the relationship isn't right follow your heart and it will turn out ok. Your son or daughter deserves a mummy who is loved, adored and cherished. Then they will know how to love properly too. X

Any single moms out there? In need of some emotional support 😔😢

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