Why would a guy only want to be fwb and not actually friends or go out or anything?

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I'm 16 and he's 20

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Hmm maybe because it's illegal, unless you have parental consent, it's statutory rape.

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He's horny and just wants sex. You deserve better

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Sometimes sex is just sex. It does not mean guys are assholes so I dont know why people have to to that label on it. I had a few "fwb's" in college because I didn't want to be tied down. I knew what I wanted from them and made it clear. If they tried to make it into something it wasn't, I ended it. As long as both parties agree with what's going on then it can be fun. Some people can do it and some people can't keep feelings and sex separate. Neither of those is a bad thing as long as your sure of what you want.

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Ashely is so right!

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1. He wants sex
2. That's a big mental difference. May only be 4 years but the mentalities are completely different
3. If you're in the US that's illegal
4. You're not someone he wants to settle with

Why would a guy only want to be fwb and not actually friends or go out or anything?

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