So I was married for too years...and together three he was abusive mentality and physically..we have been separated for three months a s I can't file for divorce until april because we moved out of state..I've been seeing people but nothing serious....But I met this wonderful guy about two weeks ago and I'm awed ..he is a complete gentleman like I'm so amazed but I'm not sure about taking next steps or what to do ..I've been hurt and it's hard to trust again..he was in the navy for six years and has two kids which don't live with him is ex lives out of state and the reason they split is because she cheated multiple times on him ...so I just want advice and opinions from everyone