What do you believe is an realistic expectation from a SO?

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Just curious, if more than one comment.

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Uh, I don't see any of them as realistic expectations. Sounds like someone has some control/trust issues.

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None of the above?

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Is it odd that my husband does none of these things?

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I want him to quit drinking, it has been a 9 year fight he was and has alcoholic tendencies and a family history of it, i get so pissed.

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None of those bother me except the female friends, I wouldn't mind if I got to know them, but he only hangs out with these girls when I'm not around... oh wait he's been cheating well fuck.

How about some loyalty?

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I don't like any of these options... They all sound controlling. Don't get me wrong, I don't like it when my boyfriend hangs out with other women, but I don't like it only when I'm not around. But to not want them to have any female friends, drink, smoke, curse or yell, or any of these is controlling and hypocritical. At least in my situation. We had problems with the drinking and smoking, but I did NOT ask him to quite. I asked him to slow down. He has quite smoking but not because I asked him to. Because he wanted to.

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None of these lol. The only one I would like for him to change is yelling at me. I don't care if he masturbates or watches porn. Male and female friends are fine. We drink together on occasion. To each their own though.

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I checked 'no liquor or tobacco use' but that's because neither of us smoke. Drinking every once in a while is fine, but if he wanted to go out and get drunk every night then I'd have an issue

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Hahaha wow some of those are controlling as hell. 
No female friends? Cmon ladies get over yourselves you aren't the dictator. 
The ones that are logical would be no yelling (never okay and makes a good argument turn sour) and no drinking or tobacco usage which damage a users health.

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The only one of those that is really reasonable in my opinion is the no yelling/cursing. My SO and I try to avoid yelling and especially cursing at each other. But the rest of them seem really controlling. We trust eachother entirely and neither of us pick fights over insignificant things.

What do you believe is an realistic expectation from a SO?

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