Wedding photos

How long did it take for you to get your wedding pictures back from the photographer? It's been two months since my wedding and we still don't have ours. We hired my friend who is a really good photographer, but she seems to have put us on the back burner. I see facebook posts all the time about her wanting volunteers to photograph for her portfolio on the weekends. I don't want to say anything because I don't have my pictures yet and she's already been paid. I feel like if I piss her off she'll just wait longer. What do I do?!