My brother is finally getting married and my brother and sister in law wants me to be in their wedding but, I don't want to then to top it off the bridesmaids dresses are ugly, should I tell her I don't like it?

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You know.. Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to for the people we love. It's their day.. Their dress. How would you feel if your brother refused to be in your wedding? Just go.. Be happy for them.. Support them. That's what family is for!

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It's her day. Not yours.

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I had a very opinionated bridesmaid when I was getting married who literally hated everything I picked out. Please don't be that girl.....

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If you don't want to tell them no. As far as the dress if u are in it u have to suck it up bc that's what the bride wants and it's her day.

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Its their wedding, their choices. Doesn't affect you just wear it and deal with it.

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Don't say anything about the dress. It's not your choice. It's hers. It's her day so you just have to go along with whatever she wants. I had a bridesmaid that hated everything I wanted and it just caused trouble. However, if you really don't want to be in the wedding or if the dress is that big of a deal, then don't be in it. It's your choice but you may upset your brother and sister in law.

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Her day not yours. If you already agreed to be in the wedding you shouldn't back out but don't be that person to make it all about themselves. Honestly if it were my wedding and I knew this is how someone felt I wouldn't want them there period. It's a happy moment and a special mile stone for you brother. You should be happy for him and be a good sister an do whatever you can to make it a good experience.

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You could have said no to the invite of being in the wedding but don't back out of you agreed already to be in it. As far as the dress, it's what the bride wants. As me and my husband said while we were getting married, its a selfish time for the bride and groom. What they want is what they want. You have to just go with flow. If they ask for your opinion you can tell them. Over than that just go with the flow. It's stressful enough for the couple, try don't need their bridal party to give them issues. Sorry I'm ranting, can you tell I had problems with my bridal party? Haha

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If she asks for your honest opinion, tell her they're not your style, and maybe you wouldn't feel comfortable wearing them. But if not, it would be rude to just tell her they're flat out ugly (even if that's the truth) ha.

My brother is finally getting married and my brother and sister in law wants me to be in their wedding but, I don't want to then to top it off the bridesmaids dresses are ugly, should I tell her I don't like it?

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