My daughter

I've asked her to clean her room the last 2 days.. she won't! I took her tv.. still won't Clean it.. she's 5 and she knows the rule. Her room must be cleaned before dad gets home from work.. i feel like this is an on going fight the last 2 days.. I'm 8 weeks moody and stressing out more than ever.. I'm mostly upset at the fact my daughter knows the rule and has always went by the rules of the house.. i honestly don't know what to do.. i feel so confused as a parent and sorta feel like my daughter is walking all over me.. I'm tired of yelling.. it's not healthy for our relationship or my growing baby.. her dad said if her room isn't clean when he gets home today all her Toys are going in trash bags.. is that over the top or what you do the same?