I guess for the past 8-9 months I havent had any sex drive I used to want sex every day even up to 4-5 tomes a day I was addicted then I got to the point I hated having sex almost like its more of a bother then somthing I would enjoy ive been with my SO for 2 years this june and I know hes wanting more heck I want to "want to have sex" but I just don't and sometimes it hurts now. The rubbing hurts and thats new to me . Ive tried making love being passionate and ive tried being more open with ideas. Any suggestions on how to help my sex drive come back its gotten to the point I only have sex maybe 2 months if that?