My boyfriend of 3 years was my first and I was his, I was a virgen when I met him. 9 months into our relationship we had sex, I didn't bleed what so ever but it was somewhat painful. For awhile he would tell me I had lied and wasn't a virgen when we had sex but I was. Idk what to do anymore, he hadn't brought up this conversation up until today. I mentioned something about when we started dating and he started telling me to tell him the truth about me not being a virgen because I didn't bleed. What can I do? Leaving him is not an option and don't judge me or him, he's an amazing hard working welder and I love him to death. But this has always stayed in his head, did anyone else not bleed their first time or ever? I'm so sad and I feel bad for him because I know it upsets him. Help? 😔