This is my first pregnancy, my best friend has 3 kids and when I talk about how helpful my husband is she tells me it won't last and he won't even bother to say goodnight to them after a few months as that's what her husband is like. I KNOW my husband will be a great dad but I don't want to rub it in her face and say 'no, my husband won't play xbox all night and ignore his family' but I also don't want to offend her. Should I just not say anything?