well today i had my first ob/gyn appt to have my yearly pap and to say hey ive been ttc since nov and nothing yet so what gives? i was afraid(even though ive had 4 misscariages after 4 healthy births) that she'd pass it off and say well...lets see what happens because she's a new dr for me but nope! full blood test work up :) hormone levels, seeing how many ovaries are in reserve and others to see if she can find out what caused my mc's PLUS she ordered an ultrasound of my uterus to check and see if all's well there AND she ordered a semen count from my husband! She pulled out all the stops and i couldnt be happier :) Btw im 35yrs old and she says she doesnt even consider infertility for a woman my age unless you've been actively trying for a full yr, so for all the women my age,if you haven't conceived yet and haven't tried for a whole yr, this is totally normal....and good news :) im so happy