Don't call him. Nor text , and try really hard not to stalk his social media. The block button helps a lot. Plus , you may get angry or upset. Which leads to a nasty text or phone call. Any mutual friends you had , that you met on his side. Write them all an email , stating you enjoyed knowing them but for right now until you heal you need to distance yourself it's nothing towards them you just have to do it for you and hope they can understand. ( block them ). With that then you won't hear if he's talked about you , moved on or etc.

By doing this depending on why things had ended , it's not a drama feast and you never know if you guys will get back together. Sometimes , it can ruin the chances. It also shows your mature and not some crazy ex girlfriend. Nobody likes those and they always seem too get the bad name.

Any belongings of his have a friend or family member drop them off too him. And vice Vera. Helps the emotions , and the feeling on choking up by not seeing him. After all the crazy you would do by packing them up.

-Even though it hurts like hell right now , in time it heels , even though we wish that it would fast forward. Do not look at PHOTOS! Until , it's time to get rid of them. Avoid being spiteful while your mind is going 100mph and your emotions are going north , south , east , west.

In the mean time , take care of yourself , eat , cry in the shower once you get out leave the tears there and do your hair , make up.etc. Do some soul searching , find yourself and things you love doing and dicover new things. Can you remember doing the last thing you loved doing with your girlfriends? Be around friends! Keep yourself busy.

You got this girl! Hope you feel better. And remember the sun always comes out after when it rains. 😊

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