There is a post debating porn just about every day on here. Personally, I don't care if my husband watches porn in moderation as long as it's not negatively affecting our lives. But some people do care, and that's fine. You can't help what upsets you. But on every post there's at least one comment that says "at least he's not cheating on you." This argument makes zero sense. Masturbation and cheating are apples and oranges. It's not like men have the choice between masturbating and cheating and MUST choose one, so lucky you - he chose masturbating. I really wish people would stop making this comparison.