I need your advice ladies! As i had mentioned earlier, i don't live with my husband and we haven't lived together for more than 4weeks since we got married. I live here in the states and he lives in Kenya. It has been so hard living separately despite talking and skyping everyday. I have our daughter here with me and he's all by himself. Paperwork to help him join us is taking longer than we thought. Anyway, we were talking of joining him back in kenya temporarily till he is able to join us, which excites me but there are so many factors to consider. Like our daughters education, my school, work and we have been trying to get pregnant everytime we are together in vain and this is draining. He's my Bestfriend and im so confused what step to take that will be good for the three of us. What do you think i should do?