I was about to have sex for the first time on Friday night (@19) I've been on & off with my boyfriend for 3 years & he didn't wanna wear a condom. & I wasn't going to do it if he didn't have one but turns out he did. So in the time he put it on his penis wasn't erect anymore & said it's better without a condom. He kept blaming the condom! I was laughing & he was kind of embarrassed. Is this normal? BTW ladies... I comforted him & said it happens. I didn't shut him down. Lol.

P.s. wasn't his first time & it was for me. So I chose to be safe about it. Still a virgin! Oops! Not sorry.