What's more of a commitment, Having a child, or getting married?

Ena • In the process of starting my beautiful family!

Another posted inspired me to pose this question to you women:

What commitment is more serious to you, having a child or marriage?

If you say, "child over marriage", tell us why?

If you say, "marriage over child", tell us why?

If it doesn't matter to you tell me why?

However you answer, tell me what you think about marriage. Is it important to you? Why or why not?

Why do you believe that a lifelong commitment to someone via a child is okay, but not being married to someone? Do you think you're marriage material? How many children/children father's do you have?

I want to know your thoughts respectfully!

Please do not judge or attack anyone on this post!

Let's answer honestly and respectfully!