Hi people, ok so this is just a little bit of banter.  I had my boy names and girl names all sorted before I had kids. My brothers wife got pregnant with a boy I said I liked a certain name and that name would be for my boy (if I had one) and he goes and nicks it! Then 10 years later I say what name I would have if I had a boy (still hadn't had one) and then low and behold he nicked that name too!!!!! Then my sister had a little girl, same same thing happens, another name nicked! Then my SO's sister has a kid and guess what!?!?! Same thing happened! I mean seriously what the actual fuck! I've learned not to say anything now.  Ok they are just names and this isn't a serious post but my god it pissed me off no end!