Ugh I don't know what to do anymore. I'm 35+1 and a lot of people are asking if they can come see the baby in the hospital when I have him. Okay first of all if you ask the question that means I'm aloud to answer it however I want right? I guess not, because I told every single person that asked "no". I explained only immediate family will be coming to visit the hospital and even they need to wait at least 12 hours after I have him. Every person I had to explain this too flipped out on me. How I am being selfish. And how they are our friends or whatever. What pisses me off even more is half of these people don't even try to see me and my husband regularly but think they are obligated to ambush the hospital to see my son.  Am I honestly wrong for not wanting a bunch of people there? Even some family members have gotten upset because I made it clear that I don't want people in the waiting room while I'm going into labor an having him. They can all come after I've had him and both me and my husband are able to rest before dealing with family coming in an out. My mom n brothers have been fine with our wishes but my husbands mom said it's her right to be at the hospital when she pleases to see her grandson as soon as she wants. Sorry but no one has rights to my child but me an my husband. I am so stressed out I'm about to tell everyone that I won't even let them know we are going to have him and then you'll have no choice but to come to home an see him or don't bother at all.