I'm so frustrated :( my husband and I have been married 4 years now and he's gone down on me once. Every single time we have sex I have to blow him to get him nice and ready. Today I all but begged him to go down on me and he just said no I don't like that then proceeded to just get on top of me and go after it, all of 30 seconds.. I'm just so so frustrated, I never orgasm or anything unless I do it myself afterwards. He doesn't care about my pleasure at all and he never really has but today it's really gotten to me to the point of crying. I need advice. I've tried talking to him about it and he just says he doesn't like to go down yet he expects me to. Also he used to tell me how much he'd go down on his ex gf and he won't even touch me. I'm nice and waxed and clean for him. I love sex so I don't wanna hear well don't go down on him till he does you, cuz I'll be waiting forever. Idk what to do or even say at this point.