Relationship Issues!! Help!

Savannah • A mother that has Goals!
I love my boyfriend a lot... he loves me and my daughter a lot too. I want to one dat have kids with him because he'd be a great father and he wants me to have children with him also. He isn't cheating or showing any signs .. me neither but WE ARGUE waaaaay too much. Like he will wake up arguing with me .. then i tell him " and u wonder why I wanna break up" or something in that nature. Not pointing fingers but he is always the one to start it . By asking me stupid things or just working my nerves. Its getting to the point were I'm very close to wanting to Find someone else or just start talking to males as friends... I do feel it would be best for me and him to breakup BUT I love him and it'd hurt seeing him with someone else and I REALLY do want to be his wife and start a family but he is disrespectful at times and just push me away with his Behavior and can be alil controling... What should I do . I've been with him for a year and some months now and he's been in my daughter life since she was 7mnths , she's 19 mnths now.