Need some encouragement

So in May it'll be 3 years of trying. Was feeling really good about this month. AF due today but none of my normal signs of it coming. Took a test and it was negative... Haven't cried in awhile over this but I did today. I feel like less of a woman because I can't give my husband what we both want most. Hes always so supportive though and says everything is going to be okay even though I know it hurts him just as much. We've just moved states so I'm looking for a new doctor soon. I went to my old doctor a few months ago after I finally gave up on trying naturally and all she kept saying to me was "if you have period, you have baby" very aggravating to hear when it's been 2 1/2 years already!! So ready for my BFP 😔