What is he thinking?

Question

I'm 18 and this guy I know just turned 17. I've known Jim for over a year and we recently just had sex and now he's ignoring me kinda. I drive an hour to his house every time I visit him too.

Answer

He got what he wanted & now you're chasing him instead of him chasing you. Also, now he has a story for his friends about how he got laid by an older chick. Sorry I know that may sting, but that's truth. I'm turning 32 soon & have had many guy & girl friends who have told me both sides of this story. Hope that helps you understand boys vs men.

Answer

I had something similar happen, besides to me we were more than friends and I would have hoped he would have thought so as well that we had done multiple things together. Some guys just get good at playing the game and playing on emotions. I had eventually gone to him about it and he treated it as if it was no big deal. It's the hard truth but to him I was just another number to add to the list. He had played the part to get what we wanted.

Answer

If you weren't clear that you wanted more than sex then you're probably just another number to him. If you wanted more you should talk to him about it.

What is he thinking?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey