In the type who shouldn't throw parties....

Joiya
People are always inviting me to go to their parties or to go do something with them, but if I try to throw my own party or get together most people bail or have an excuse why the can't go... Does this happen to anyone else? I'm obviously not a totally bad person otherwise I wouldn't keep being invited to things, but I'm definitely not the light of a room.... My SIL who is the wife of my husband's twin brother, she'll go to all family functions or our husband friends get togethers or a double date with my my husband and I and stay at our house, but if the event is focused on me and especially if it's an only female event, she bails every time.... But she'll invite me all the time to go do things with her if it's just is two or us four or involving other family members.... So Idk what the hell.... It's like if it's my idea she doesn't want to....