Go to a 1st bday party a month after IVF miscarriage?

Jo • Both 41...TTC for too long
I had a BFP after my 1st <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">Ivf</a>. This after 1.5 years trying, 6 failed IUIs. I miss carried at 8 weeks 3/10 was my d&c.
My husbands bf son is turning 1 and has invited us to the Bday party. Where there will be more babies. I said I'm not ready he can go. I got that U need to get over it. His friends & family don't know about the mc but do know we've been struggling since we got married to have a baby. Thoughts??? 

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