People don't get it!

I know people are trying to be understanding. But they just don't understand.  I hate it when they say the time just wasn't right or its ok it'll happen for u when its supposed to. Do they not understand that I'm not mourning over not being able to conceive. I'm mourning over The fact that I lost my baby. I lost my little baby. It wasn't supposed to be like this!!  I had this little chocolate chip and now it's gone. This happened in January and I'm still so devastated. Sometimes I just don't think I could go on. I just don't know what to do