So, if a woman on here asks if she looks fat (in a bikini, after birth, just in general), they should be ready for the truth, right?? Just my opinion, but as a woman, if I honestly think you look "fat" in a bikini, or its just unflattering, I'm going to tell you! If you just want people to lie and say you look great, don't post a picture of your body. If I didn't look good in something, I would want someone to tell me instead of just saying what they think I want to hear. If I'm going to go to the beach and embarrass myself because I really do look overweight and it's NOT flattering, I'd be so annoyed of somebody lied and said, "girl, you look great!"

Most women struggle with weight issues at some point, so if you're asking for honest opinions, be prepared for them! I think it's the right thing to do to maybe say, "it's not the best fit for you..." or "you could lose a little weight."

Why is that seen as rude instead of helpful?