He comes home in May 😁

 So I met the love of my life 4 years ago at school. From the first day there were fireworks...to sum up our relationship it's pretty much as romantic and tragic as the Notebook! We didn't date, because we were both stupid and thought that "love at first sight/meeting" wasn't a real thing! All these years, since he's been in the military, any other guy I've dated I've only thought about him (Joe).
  Found out recently from my brother
  (him and my brother have been close for some time since they're both in the army), my brother said that Joe told him that if I would've said "I love you" and nothing else when he told everyone that he was joining the Army he wouldn't have joined😦 also recently by  talking to Joe on skype he told me "all these years he things we should've dated and wishes that we did." 
   He's being medically discharged in mid May and buying a ranch in Missouri (where he's from), but coming home to FL to visit for a month to see me and everything. How do I tell him that I don't want him to move to missouri?