My fiancee and i dont know whether to have an actual wedding or get married in a court house. Im a type of girl that never wanted a big wedding. I like the idea of a small one but he wants a big one. I dont really want a big one because 1. Only about 5 people out of like 80 family members will come from my side and hell have like 50 people coming. 2. We dont have any money for a wedding. Everyone i seem to talk to has gotten married in a court house says their marriage is amazing and everyone who didnt says their marriage is going down the drain so i dont know what we should do :(