Confused and frustrated

I'm a mother of an almost 3yr old.... I've been single for 2 1/2 yrs.... I think I'm ready to date but the guys I've been meeting lately aren't for me.... I want someone to grow n build with n someone my child can look up too, on top of tht I want them to love me child more than and I want more children.... should I jus go with the flow of things or just wait n I'll know if he's the one?