Why do crack addicts get to get pregnant without any problems? Why do people with no intention of earning a living get to get pregnant without any problems? Why do people who don't want babies get to get pregnant with no problem? Why do ilequipped people get to get pregnant with no problems? Why not me? I've lost two precious angels and I can't seem to get or stay pregnant even though I want motherhood more than most. I am in a near perfect relationship and I'm financially stable, and I don't get it. I deserve it, so why not me? )': </3 my heart breaks a little every time I get a BFN. My husband is so wonderful and supportive, but I feel defective and like I'm being cheated out of something I genuinely deserve and am prepared to have. So why not me?