So last month we found out that he has low count and I have one ovary working properly and the other is still covered in big cysts. So I tried the soft cup method this past ovulation. I'm 11dpo and I guess I want it so bad that the past week I have had SEVERAL dreams sometimes back to back at night about getting a positive test and surprising my husband. It depresses me when I see the neg every morning and I'm hoping for a pos. Maybe it will happen soon!