One on my friends, the day of my miscarriage told me... Don't be mad don't cry and don't hate me.... But you could miscarry bc I did. So just don't buy anything for the baby or get to excited bc it happens. After that all I could do is cry and that night I had a miscarriage. I don't blame her but I feel like somethings you should keep to yourself and when I told her that I am breaking up with her her response was what's your problem?! I don't understand why you are upset and I am sorry for your loss.