"Talk" is not advice.

Ashley
I love these community boards because it really gives us all a chance to get advice from our peers. 
But I'm so sick of reading "Just talk to them. Tell them your feelings." Im sure if talking it out our way worked, we wouldn't be asking for help! I wanna hear some things to SAY to get the ball rolling.
Example: 
-I don't wanna fight about this anymore. I want to have an open and honest discussion about...
-I want to give you/us an opportunity to work this out without being judgemental. 
-What can I/we be doing differently to avoid this strain/issue in our relationship? 
Post yours below!