Does your hubby/SO understand what your going through while TTC?

Question

My hubby and I just had a huge fight because I'm having all these feelings of disappointment, failure, fear and stress while we are ttc and he says things like "we'll just try again next month!" Like he has no feelings about it and I'm left feeling alone and like I'm a crazy person.  Do your hubby's/SO's feel like you do?

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My husband is always extremely supportive and will talk to me forever about it and any updates, etc but I still think it is very hard for men to feel the same way we do, especially since everything is happening within our bodies. We think about it all day long because every cramp or headache or fatigued feeling we analyze. They aren't reminded of it every 15 seconds throughout the day. Lol I don't think it's that they don't care, it's just not the same for them as it is for us.

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It just makes it a very lonely process :(

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Neither does mine.

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I think it is a way to not Put pressure on us. My husband take care of me And ask some questions And is taking the FertileAid for men but I dont see he is stressing about it. When he ask And i explain whats going on he is just like "oh ok" 😐 like nothing is going on!!! Probably we are so sensitive that we overthinking and sometimes we overreact anyway they can not feel what we feel in our body.

Do not take it personal....I think they are like that to cover their real feelings or to do not make us feel worse.
Xoxo !

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Yeah mine does not get it.

Does your hubby/SO understand what your going through while TTC?

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