Do You Get Jealous When Your Man Hangs with his friends?

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I'm VERY jealous when it comes to my Boyfriend hanging out when it's not with me. Its gotten so BAD to the point where I'm even Jealous if he's at the Gym with his 'Boys' or just having a drink with the guys... Long story short, I'm VERY insecure, and jealous. And I REALLY don't know why, because he's honestly a great guy to me. I often ask myself how could I be so SELFISH? I really don't wanna Run him away with my insecurities.. Or Ruin a good thing... 😔

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Nope, I've never really been the jealous type. I mean i wouldn't want my husband being gone all the time but once in a while isn't a big deal.

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I was once this way, don't let your insecurities about past relationships ruin what you have. If he's a good guy, let him go, no questions asked. While he's gone just keep telling yourself that he's a good man, he's not doing anything to hurt you and he'll be back! Not all men are the same, just because someone else hurt you before doesn't mean this man will. Have faith in your man and your relationship honey!

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You have to trust him.  My boyfriend goes to the bar like once every few months with his friend and I know his friend is looking for girls but I know my boyfriend wouldn't cheat on me.  The truth is if they are gonna cheat they don't have to be at a bar or club or at the gym to do it they will find a way!  So like u said if ur man's a good guy trust him to have his guy time and if u feel insecure just talk to him about it.

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My hubby coaches lacrosse with his friend so he is gone a lot. Then in the summer he plays baseball and he's also on the town hockey counsel. He goes out without me to hang out with his friends. I trust and love him. He will text me to say he misses me or if he will be late.  I totally understand being jealous as I have been that way in the past. The truth is if he wanted to cheat there's nothing you can do to stop him. Just trust him unless you have a reason not to.