What is better for a miscarriage?

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I found out a little over a week ago that unfortunately my baby's heart stopped. This is my third consecutive miscarriage..the first time I did natural but bled too much and had to have blood transfusions and an emergency d&c but the second one i chose d&c. It took us a year to conceive this time and my husband thinks it had something to do with the d&c so he wants me to try natural but since i almost died last time i tried I'm of course scared. Any input on your experience would be great! Thanks!

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Does anyone else feel pain in the cervix after using cycotec?? I miscarried (4th) @ 15w on the 11th of sept and i didnt want the dnc cos of the scrapings, i have been bleeding for over a weak and have little or no cramps now but i want to know if its normal to feel sore

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I used cytotech.  Probably would have been fine if it was natural, but it sped things along. Started miscarrying early thursday. Contractions sunday night. Cytotech monday morning.  Ultrasound thursday showed everything was gone.  Stopped bleeding by saturday :/ I guess it really just depends on the person for which is "better". My insurance agency prefers to try the medication first because theres less risk of damage that way.

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I think you should try to let things happen naturally because there can be trauma to your uterus, cervix, and vagina with a D&C. However you will want to keep an eye on how much you are bleeding, and go to the hospital if necessary.

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I think it depends on too many factors. I bled soooo much with my first one that I should have went to the ER but didn't. I had a chemical pregnancy in Sept and passed it naturally with no problems. I had a missed miscarriage Jan 29th at 12w1d and chose a D&C because my body wasn't showing any signs of miscarriage. I knew I have issues with bleeding too much and didn't want any of my kids to find me in some scary situation. After the D&C  the dr said I bled really bad again and should be glad I chose the surgery. I was so angry at myself for getting the D&C because I couldn't see my baby. March 30 I lost another chemical pregnancy and passed everything naturally. I have realized that the 2 that were 12 weeks I had issues with bleeding. The 2 that were 4 weeks I had no issue. Sooo sorry for your losses. I'll say a prayer for your family. 🙏

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I pefer the natural over the d&c becouse the second one is a surgery

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I've opted for d&c..it's been almost three weeks and nothing. Flashbacks of the pain and horrific nightmare from my natural keep coming back so today i booked my d&c.

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It's so hard- after 2 D&Cs I opted to do it naturally. It was the most painful thing I've ever experienced. I ended up being ok in the end, but honestly I think I'd have to opt for another d&c again. Honestly, the actual surgery is fine- I just hate having to be in a room with the rest of the day surgery patients at the hospital, and not much sensitivity regarding what I'm going through. 
I'm so sorry you have to make this decision, and for your losses. I voted d&c bc of the pain, but I think it depends how miserable the hospital is for day surgeries.

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3 weeks ago I had a natural miscarriage at 18w. Physically I had no issues and passed everything fine but it has emotionally destroyed me. I was  scheduled for a D&C but the night before, I went into what I would consider labor-all alone in my cold bathroom. The doctor told me I should be "thankful" it happened this way cause it's better that way...I disagree. I think a D&C would have been much easier emotionally on me. Good luck in whatever you do hun. Make the choice you feel most comfortable with.

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I've had 2 early miscarriages naturally which in my opinion was way worst emotionally and painful! I had a missed miscarriage in February and opted to do the Dnc and honestly I don't think I would ever opt for a natural miscarriage again. Either way they can tell u if the baby had a chromsone defect if they have the baby to test. I'm in the process of doing a whole bunch of blood work to see why I've had 3 consecutive miscarriages after having 3 healthy pregnancys. Good luck to you dear.

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Both MCs I did naturally, 12 weeks and 5 weeks. I honestly don't think it matters how you do it. You body either can or cannot do it itself. Becareful and listen to your doctor. Mostly they know best.

What is better for a miscarriage?

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