So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, and we are very happy. But ever since I got back on birth control I never want to have sex. He has a very high sex drive and I don't want to ruin our relationship. We still have sex just not nearly often enough for him. It's uncomfortable, almost painful for me at times. I'm not sure if this is because of the birth controls pills I'm taking. Anyone been through something similar?