My husband and I married 11/09/2014. In December he got laid off from his job which isn't great but ok because I work from home and make decent money. The issue is that he wants to be underneath me or on top of me all day. If he's not trying to have sex with me, he's pleasuring himself in our homes common area or napping the day away. Also I've been on BC since December and it has affected my sex drive so I'm not always in the mood.