I'm Kai - my partner and I have been trying since I graduated in 2011, on and off. My docs don't really seem interested in testing us because I'm bipolar and have what is most likely IBS. I also have two teens from a previous relationship, which I know is more than some have.

We have miscarried a few times (well, more than a few), and we've just started trying again. I am overweight and working on it, taking folic acid regularly and we follow all current TCC advice.

It's good to know there's a place to come talk.

Kai