The root of their hatred does not come from only my family, however-- a few weeks ago, his dad walked in on us doing sexual things and hasn't said a word about it /yet/. His father refuses to participate in anything involving me and comes up with excuses for me not to come over. His mom is the only parent willing to participate in the relationship at all because my folks are completely uninterested. Since neither of us drive (we're in high school) we depend on her. I'm so worried she's going to start disliking me. What do I do? Should I change how I act and suck up to them, at least for now? Or confront them about it?