Abortion?.....

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Please no negative comments I really just need some uplifting. So lately my anxiety is over the top  horribly bad, as is my nausea, I'm sick 24/7 and not to mention the guy I got pregnant by isn't in the picture and I despise him and wish I wasn't carrying his child. I'm 9 weeks today and the fact that today is Saturday and I can't go hang out with my gfs at the bars just makes me even more depressed idk what to do... I know I should have used protection but I didn't and now I don't know if I can go through with having this baby... Really needed to get this off my chest

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I went through the same thing when pregnant with my daughter. I despised the father and was on my own. However I decided to stick it out alone and it's the best decision I ever made. My life is blessed because of her and no matter how much hard work it is, I would do it all over again and wouldn't change a thing. Obviously it is your choice but think hard before you do anything drastic. You might regret it, I know I would have.

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Just don't forget about adoption! Good luck! (:

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Pregnancy is hard. I'm so sorry you are feeling alone in this. The choice is up to you but I have to tell you that the best part of my life is being a mother. I have a two year old little girl who blesses my life continually. It is the most amazing experience in the world to hold your new baby and the love you feel for them is unimaginable. There is a bond between a mother and child that is unparalleled to anything else and it only grows stronger as they get older. Right now I am expecting my second baby and I am sick like you. But last week while I was so sick and unable to keep anything down, my little girl came and patted my back and told me she loved me (and to take deep breaths :)). Being a mother changes your life in so many wonderful ways. I just wanted to share that something incredible can come from this situation even though it might not seem like it now. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you feel better.

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There's adoption also.  No judging,  just really think it through and speak with someone..... And PRAY

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I'm impressed by the lack of negative comments and good advice! I've never personally had an abortion but I had a friend who had 3 before she was married and now regrets all of them. She says it looked like the only option then but now she's sure she could have and should have made it work. Get counseling and pray about it 💕 I totally believe God has a great plan for you and your baby, not matter how messy the details may seem. Weigh your options carefully and be well informed before making any emotional decisions. A rule I was taught to live by is if you don't have peace, Don't do it! And I've never been steered wrong! Praying for you!!!!! *Hugs!*

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Tough it out for a 9 months and bless some little family who wants to give your baby the world!!!!

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In my opinion abortion is NEVER the answer. My parents had an abortion years before they ever thought about me and to this day it literally kills them. It hurts me just as bad. To think I could of had a sister or brother that would about 32 makes me sad I don't. They were young and dumb and happened to be the first time either of them ever had sex. They were scared. Ik it would suck to raise a child on your own and some just don't want to. Adoption is a wonderful thing. There are a lot of people out there that can't have babies and yes ik there are a lot of kids out there still waiting to be adopted but it's not the child's fault it does not have a father in the picture. The morning sickness will go away and can hang out with your gfs, just be the DD and have fun with them. You don't have to drink. A baby is a miracle that is so beautiful and literally it takes the sun and the moon and the stars to line up just right to get pregnant. The timing had to be there and i believe sometimes even with the timing being there if God don't think your ready for a baby he won't give you one. He does not give anyone anything they can't handle. Don't throw away something so beautiful to hang out with your gf's or because of a little morning sickness or because the dad is not in the picture. It is a blessing I wish I could have and want so bad. You can do it!

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Please please talk to your OB/ midwife about what you are feeling. They can help.

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I had one years ago, and while I know it was the right choice it was still so hard!  I also understand the issue with the father.  I can't stand my daughter's father!  I wish everyday he wasn't her dad!  But that's a life long issue.  Think on that one long and hard!  Also, with adoption you usually need his consent as well!  You really have to talk to him about it first.

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Talk to someone. Your doctor or midwife can help. Whatever you decide,  make sure you surround yourself with supportive friends or family. Abortion is absolutely an option and don't let anyone make you feel guilty about it. Just be prepared for the hormone dumps after, but remember it was the best choice for you. Good luck.

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