We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter who is my heart. I never knew I could love someone so much until I had her. She's the reason for my whole world. I'm terrified she won't love me like she does once her brother comes and I have to give him attention. Obviously I don't want her spoiled like that but I love giving her my attention and always being there for snuggle. The thought of telling her not right now hurts my heart :( I'm not as attached to him inside me, which I hear is common for second time mothers so I'm really not worried about it when he comes out. I know I'll love him the same. I know these fears are irrational too because of course she'll feel jealous and not understand right away but it's not going to give her some issue that'll make her end up in therapy lol but it just hurts me knowing I won't be giving her my all like I want too:(