Opinions anyone?!?!?!?!

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I'm 20 and getting annoyed by people ( in real life not on here) telling me very rude and negative comments like at stores and stuff because I have a 2 1/2 y/o lil boy and a 6 month old lil girl and currently 6 weeks pregnant. So is it really that bad as most people make it sound?

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I mean it's all up to people's opinions. I personally think that 3 kids by 21 is a lot...but that's me. Who am I to judge you or your circumstances? I just hope that you are stable (home and job) and are happy 😊

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I couldn't imagine having 3 kids by the age of 21 personally. But if you can afford them financially and are ready emotionally, then who cares? Not anyone's business but yours and your partners.

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I will never understand why strangers think it's ok to comment on such things when out in public. You just have to ignore stupidity.

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That was rude and stupid of that cashier. You are absolutely in the right. Do what I do. Call and speak to the manager (dont email - it will only work if you call). Tell them what happened and what the person said. Then suggest as compensation and for you to continue using their store (make sure that you refer to the manager as it being 'you're store'.) I usually suggest a $50 gift card. I have never been told no. I have probably received a good couple thousand with all my manager talks.

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Why do you care about random people in a store? Obviously you chose your life, why do their opinions, or ours, matter to you?

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I don't know your situation. Are you providing for your kids and working while feeding them and keeping them clean and in clothes? Are you using the welfare system or living at your patents house? Everyone is going to have an opinion but the facts say a lot. Has CPS been involved? If not, don't worry..to each their own

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That does seem like a lot for someone so young. I would never do it, but to each her own, I guess.

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They won't know you're pregnant unless you tell then 
Other than that tell them your kids are happy and they need to mind their own business

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Some people are just assholes. Let them be bitter. It'll only bother them more when you can walk away with a smile on your face, not phased by their comments. :)

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I married somebody 12 yrs older then me and ended up with stepchildren that were 11, 8 and 16 months. Believe people are going to judge no matter what. you just be you and love them.

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