My boyfriend and I have known each other for 12 years been in a relationship for 5 years and have lived together for 3 years. We have no children together, just two dogs and two cats. Things have been going down hill for the past year and a half and I'm just not sure I want to be with him anymore. I have spoken to him bout getting married and have kids and he says, we can't afford all that right now, but yet he buys hockey equipment got himself( he's on a league) he pays to play and he always always talks about buying new things for his jeep or new video games, or any other hobby he has. But I mention moving forward with our life and he just comes up with excuses..... We don't kiss, no holding hands or hugging or romance period. No vacations together havnt  had sex in over a month. I'm 28 he is 32..... Am I over reacting or should I turn a new leaf... And end things