Who else hates their mothers?

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I see all this crap in my feed about great moms. I know there's always someone to offend someone, but I know I'm not the only one with a crappy mom.

So let's talk about it. Feel free to post the worst she's done, if you forgave her, all that jazz. I'll start.

The worst mine did was sell my little sister and me to her boyfriends when we were little. I never forgave for that one.

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I don't hate my mom, but I don't have time for her and her bullshit.

She was and still is an abusive alcoholic druggie. She never takes responsibility for herself and her actions. She is forever projecting and for a while had the majority of my family convinced that I was the alcoholic, not her.

She left us alone with the man who raped her as a child. Numerous times.  She often threatened to send us to live with our fathers. Which would have been fine except I didn't even know mine.

And even now she will, from time to time, hint that the man I have known as my father since she introduced us when I was eleven isn't actually my father. Which really hurts because the stepmom I have is the most amazing mom in the entire world and I would never want to give her up.

So, a few months ago I got tired of screaming 3am phone calls and being drunkenly harassed constantly and I cut her out of my life. It's going on a year since I've talked to her and it's been one of the most peaceful of my life 😄

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I told my Mom that I miscarried in November. And she started telling me how happy she is that I miscarried! She loves my brother with all her heart. When my parents divorced when I was 3. She gave my to my grandma. She said many times that the reason she gave me way was because I was always a verry shellfish person a d she couldn't stand me!

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I hated my mom for many years but now after her death I don't so much hate her as  I am thankful she is dead. I know horrible.  The woman chose a bottle of me and 2 others. As a mother I couldn't bare the thought. My kid is just to precious.

Everything I know about my mom I have learned from someone else. She would have been an amazing person I guess.

I am slightly thankful I am able to use her as an example to my daughter whe b she is old enough.

But all that she was a total $&/@# .

I don't miss her.

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I can honestly say that my mum is my best friend. In the past, I couldn't stand her. But now, I've become increasingly honest with her and she's become more honest with me and now we're best friends.

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I don't hate my mom but I probably should. When my dad went to prison when I was 16 and my sister was 14, she completely took off. She told everyone in my family that we were all fine and then left us alone in a house far from town for weeks on end. She got really bad into drugs and now four years later is finally sober. The shit she put us through in that amount of time is insane. I won't even go into detail the things we experienced.

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The "worst" was stealing my identity, or rather the biggest. Not my beloved sister, no, the youngest. The slut. The cheap whore. The that "would never amount to jack shit". The accident, but yet still her "miracle baby".

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I hate my mother and couldn't care less if never heard of her or saw her ever again ! she palmed her kids off on me when I was just 6 years old ! I had to feed and care for a 4 year old a 3 year old and a 1 year old then a newborn baby whilst she sat upstairs with him smacked up ! I reconnected with her at 13 up untill recently I never fully forgive her she cleaned up her act and was pretty supportive for a good few years although she never apologised , then about 4 years ago she got a new man then that's when things started to play up again , at first she was consistent with my kids and took them every other weekend then last year she decided she was going to grow cannabis in her spare room so I instantly stopped her having my kids there , since then she let her son live there and moved with her man he's awful too , he wanted my brother out her flat , so she kicked him out and palmed him off on me , I was going through a misscarriage at the time too so it wasn't like things wernt stressful enough ! there's also the fact that she's in complete denial of what happened when I read the notes and they confirmed with memory's, she's just not worth my effort anymore I grew up wanting that motherly love and just never got it from her ! We were starting to get somewhere before she met that manic depressive lunatic , she hasn't even told him the truth of what happened and I've had yelling at me down the phone telling me it didn't , it's all dramatic with her and I could do without it , she doesn't even know I'm pregnant now either, she's tried to call once or twice but I haven't answered , she didn't even post my youngest a birthday card so that just added fuel to the fire , my 4 other siblings won't have anything to do with her either , they won't even speak of her , my brother that went to live at her flat refuses to talk to her too , and my nan has taken her out of her will she doesn't want her to get anything not even a penny for how she's tret us.

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Mine left us....  I don't hate her bc she is my blood

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I don't hate her, I do love her, but I hate the things she has done. She moved out of her house, to live with her boyfriend, letting my husband my 2 year old daughter move in. A few months went by, and I decided to go back out of town with my husband. She informed me the week before we left that she was moving back in and moving all of our things into the camper, because she couldn't see herself raising my 13 year old brother in a camper. Yet, I was expected to raise my 2 year old in it.

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I have to say I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who's Brent grouch that with there mom is that bad?!? Also one of the many horrible stories was when her and her bf broke up so she takes a bunch of pills trying to kill herself and looks at me and says I have nothing to live for since he left me I was 13

Who else hates their mothers?

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